What if a man you loved rejected you after making love with you?

What if you told your ex-b/f that you still loved him and he rejects you and makes fun of you to his friends. What if he did this just after making love with you. Would you ever get over the hurt and humiliation?





How can I raise my head again when I have become a laughing stock?What if a man you loved rejected you after making love with you?
He is a selfish lust driven man, very unpleasant and thoughtless. He used you, then made fun of you, which makes him nothing. You can rise above this as he is scum. Never let him back in to your life, never be his friend, never talk to him, his disregard for your feelings is ugly and hollow.





What you now need to do is look ahead, get your confidence back. Scorn those who laugh at you and believe they are just as hollow and self-centred as him. You are now going to become stronger, and you will very soon find someone who is going to treat you like an equal, maybe even put you on a pedestal, and never treat you the way he has.





Think of this as a learning curve, a point in your life where you can rebuild and become the stronger person, and to never stoop as low as to let people like that in to your heart.





It will take time, but good things are just around the corner. Be very very happy :)What if a man you loved rejected you after making love with you?
first how can u make alove with him if he wasn't your husband and make asex with him.


anyway it happened so mistakes happen things go wrong just remember that life goes on.


every day u will learn some thing new so you got experience now so 4get him and just make sure that it won't happen again.bye Report Abuse

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why not you can of course you can raise your head with pride not becoming a laughing stock.Human beings are not God so of course they always tend to make mistakes and those are considered to be the wisest who never repeat ti again in their life and you are a wise person who has bravely accepted the mistake now the best thing you should do is try involve yourself in other things like you can start loving someone who is very special to you other than your ex-boyfriend that is you yourself.so try and yourself and show him that you have learnt to live without him but you still respect him so that he will never think of making fun of you always be cool and behave nicely so that no one can make fun of you.I would love to help you if you need more help and like my suggestions.best of luck.tk cr.
You've already got some good advice here but please be sure, before you get back at him, that he's really guilty as charged. Some of his friends may be lying about what he said for reasons of their own so confront him with it first. Also, spreading the 'tiny dick' rumour won't do you any good if people know he slandered you first. Better to say you'd recently told him to get lost and he said those things out of spite. Probably no-one believed him anyway. Sometimes it's better just to put these things down to experience. He's hurt you once, now forget it and don't let him continue to annoy you.
I was in a similar situation with an ex-girlfriend. There's no really easy way to get over this. For me, I hit a point where I realized that whatever I did for this woman was moot, and that I was wasting my time. I also realized that I was hurting myself by pursuing it. I cut myself completely off: I told her I wanted nothing more to do with her, and refused to see, talk to, or think about her.





Of course, I think it was helpful that she random showed up at my apartment five months later claiming that she ';had to see me';. It seemed like she had become nostalgic over our relationship, and forgot about the reasons that we broke up. After an hour of trying my best to be polite while talking to her, I had to be perfectly blunt: I told her I had no interest in rehashing the past.





If I had to guess, based on your question: are you still in high school or attending college? If you are, fret not. It's going to appear difficult to get through this now. But high school is not forever, and you'll likely never see him again.
move on the guys an insecure jerk, using you to boost his own self image, or boost his image in what he sees as his peer group.


hge sounds immature and not very shuire of himself. its quite a comman human trait to do others down as a way of boiosting yourself...... the real knack is to boost yourself without harming others.





it'll die down fairly soon, and life will go on. just don't feel embarrassed, don't feel ashamed (you've done nothing wrong)





not all men a barstewards





think positivley.. its been an expereince.. not a nice one but learn form it. ultimately they and he have shown how juvenile and insecure they are.. its their problem not yours. dom't take on probelms which are not yours (unless you really really need to)
don't sleep with asswipes. Take that as a lesson at what ppl are worth your time. The only ways I see here for you is to either take the punches in whatever way you can, friends, hobbies, work and so forth. Or you can fight fire with fire. Tell ppl his **** look like captain Hook without the captain or something to that nature.. Size, shapes whatnot.
GET OVER HIM!


hes an asswhole and that is a horrible thing to do. I mean you will go through many nights crying and feeling horrible, its a normal thing for women sex is a big thing its not something to be taken lightly. But at the end of the day this guy obviously isn't worth your tears so get over him girl! Eat some ice cream watch a movie, cry your eyes out call him up with star 69 and yell and scream at him then move on and live a good life! %26lt;3
come on now, listen to me.





Making love is a romantic and care filled act. what he did... GRRRR!!! just writing about it makes me angry. At the end of the day, he wasn't worth it.





Mistakes happen. They just make the good things in life all the more sweeter. Save yourself for someone who can love you the way you love him.
It sounds to me that he only wanted one thing :(...but it really all depends on the type of person that he is. If i were you id try and give him the impression that you are not bothered about him anymore after what he made you feel. Make him see that you are happy without him. Maybe even look for another boyfriend to get yourseld over this guy?





Hope I helped you x
try taking all that as a joke and make the boy feel as if u aren't hurt at all and then try making him a laughing stock as record something funny about him and then put it on facebook and youtube and show it to everyone. Make his life into a living nightmare.
what a prick!!!!!! u know what ull only become a laughing stock if u let urself! ur a woman. u havnt done anything wrong, however donnot show him ur hurt, and please dont ever run back to him cos he'l only be using u 4 sex.





He nevr made love he fucked u and there is a massive difference hun!





FORGET HIM! He needs to grow up! what goes around comes around and trust me i hope when he falls in love with a girl she'l hurt n humilaite him just as bad!





That day always comes.
you raise your head knowing your ex is a complete *******. you assumed that since you two were sharing something intimate he still had those feelings for you. your not the fool, he is. just know you are the better person. dont pay him any mind. go on with your life and find someone deserving of your love
He's not worth your time. for real. A man that does that to you is truly best left alone. You will get over the hurt and humiliation and the way to get over this is to realise that its him not YOU. You're better than that and he'll get what he deserves. Don't settle for second best.
well i think you shouldn't love him anymore because he made fun of you. you should put your love in one side and start hating him so much or you can try to make him jealous i think that's the only way to get him back.
Well lets hope, besides the shame and everything, that maybe you have learnt your lesson and will not be so naive again.Stay away from him and get on with your life %26amp; find a real man who i will not hump n dump you.
You can hold your head high. Its he that is the idiot and should be ashamed NOT YOU. Best thing would be is to forget the loser. Im so sorry that he hurt you like that.
Hey u ever heard the saying ';Don't get mad get even!';


Laugh at him tell people his d*ck's the size of a pin use your imagination i'm sure you'll think up something good.


Other than that this guy sounds like a jerk! Your better off without him hun.
Hey, he Boinked You........





HE DID NOT MAKE LOVE TO YOU.....





THERE IS A DIFFERENCE.......





Sorry , that he hurt you, but Hold Your Head High %26amp; Remark on What a What A Lousy Lay He Is......... %26amp; that he's got a tiny d/i/c/k!.





LOL... don't let him.......... disrespect you........
just forget about him. get busy with your own life. this is the best thing you can do. don't torture yourself with questions. it is obvious- he is not good enough for you.
Revenge! Revenge! Revenge! Mmuahahaha...
Nail all his friends systematically and spread the rumor that he's small and lousy in bed.
he's totally not worth it! seems like you can do better!!


try really hard to move on and just forget about him!





ps, he sounds like a douche bag...
I'd get back at him, really hard.





Btw, this is an interesting question.








I'm sorry for you.
Hold your head up high - you've not done anything wrong.


Take this as a clear sign to move on from this guy.
Just be confident dont let him know it bugs you, laugh with your friends and just forget about him
just forget about him- he's not worth anything. guys will be guys- they're all pigs. just find someone else that treats you right.
what.a.wanker.
Learn to keep your legs closed.
no i wouldn't especially who was once supposed be a b/f.
Ouchhhh.





I would get back at him somehow.
tell him that your pregnant, marry him and then divorce him taking all of his money!